Death is a real part of life. Because of this, mourning is a real part of recovery. No one can tell us how to mourn or how long to mourn. However, I encourage you to allow your Mourning to take you to your Morning. This morning has nothing to do with physical day light. This morning is when your spiritual light returns. Thankfully many of us know what it means to be comforted or offer comfort when difficult life experiences hit. These kinds of interactions are catalysts that can help one move from Mourning to Morning.
Grieving is a natural feeling. Just do not be consumed by grief. Grief will keep you in Mourning and never allow you to get to you Morning. Weeping may endure for a night, but joy will come in the morning.
Matthew 5:1-4